Some people seriously irk me ……….. l am seriously irked!
Scale 1 – 10 – 10!!
I know, y’all have people that irk you too, so you can relate.
This was not my intended Blog Entry for this afternoon but l might later when l am calmer write another one, but l am having to take my stress levels down a few pegs from being volcanically explosive at 5.50pm this evening.
My Father wasn’t due to come out of hospital till this coming Thursday, the care package which was fast tracked by the relevant parties was gearing up to take effect the same day. When he is being discharged the hospital have said they will notify both myself and my Sister.
So imagine my surprise when l get a call from the nosey parker neighbour [the one who was rude to me a little under three weeks ago] and demands to know what kind of Son l am to my frail Father? Well tell me, how would you react to a call like that out of the blue? Probably like me, somewhat taken aback by the sharpness of it.
He then proceeds to tell me my Father is out of hospital, and where is his care package and that if l was a dutiful Son l would have had this sorted out. With that information l am a bit lost and think this is some kind of wind up whilst mentally processing what this man may look like when he is attempting to clean his teeth using his arse?
So the hospital not only discharged my Father but whilst they notified the carers they failed to notify either myself or my Sister, but they also notified my Father that the carers would be there at 6pm which was not a good idea considering that he forgets what you say to him five minutes later!
So l get this rude call from a man l have never met attacking me on something l didn’t know had happened. Was l pannicked? Fucking right l was pannicked! I was like shite, there is no package in place!
I sprung into action immediately and rang the hospital wondering if my Father having grown impatient at NOT being discharged had done just that, to discover that they had ‘forgotten’ to notify us thinking it was perfectly okay to tell a man who needs reminding what his name is at times that his carers would be there at 6pm!
Did l get an appology from this fellow who was rude to me??
Have l forgotten the first time he was rude to me?
Will l forget this recent time he was more than rude to me?
Oh no, l will NOT, and now l am gunning for this guy. He is the one responsible for causing the insultive behaviour from my Cousin last week by stirring the shit pot. I will not forget this neighbour and at the appropriate time, he and l are going to have a little chat on manners to people you don’t know.
I am not a violent man, but this man has now pushed the border on irksomeness thrice with me. I can forgive once, l can forgive twice, but l cannot forget three times! I have got enough stress on my plate already without someone l have never met, nor even know giving me this kind of lip!