Dear Blog … 9.15 – 08/8/18


Unsolved riddles and mysteries solved!

What an extraordinarily emotional day l have had. Not prone to crying normally and l have done so at least twice. An 18 year old riddle was solved and not since my recognition of Asperger’s in 2007 followed by my diagnosis in 2008 have l had so many revelations thrust upon me. Today two people who had not spoken for 18 years communicated for most of the day through Facebook messenger and now two people who were before today classed as arch enemies to each other became friends again.

Back in 2000 my Father made a decision that was to affect his life directly and our lives indirectly, he then became so embittered by that decision that he decided to blame my Sister and myself and created a rift between us. He never told us, he just blamed us for it. My Sister knew of the decision but not the implications, but also never realised how much he detested us as his children until today.

However, the riddle has been solved, and my Sister and l are now talking … well communicating, which is way better than hating each other through no fault of our own just a very bitter man.

I would be lying if l said today hasn’t tired me out, it has. I would be lying if l said that today didn’t break me slightly, for it did.

Tomorrow’s another day.

Dear Blog ……

10 thoughts on “Dear Blog … 9.15 – 08/8/18

  1. Divide and Conquer. Strategy of the mean minded. I truly understand as my mother did the same between me and my siblings. It’s a simple choice, you can be bitter or you can be better. Rest easy with your choices my friend 😊

  2. It sounds to me, from afar, like possibly the best day imaginable. You must be a strong individual to have kept yourself together for such an eternity of pain and injustice.

  3. Hay Rory,
    I’m glad to hear things with your sister are getting better now, as with your father I didn’t have to wonder how much my father disliked me he told me all you can do is pitey the man and move on it’s not worth the energy of bothering with, sorry for that Rory. ❤️✌️


Comments are closed.

Up ↑

%d bloggers like this: